“Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them. Live your beliefs and you can turn the world around. Nothing can be more useful to a man than the determination not to be hurried.”
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“See the system. When you find yourself stuck in an oversimplified polarized conflict, a useful first step is to try to become more aware of the system as a whole: to provide more context to your understanding of the terrain in which the stakeholders are embedded, whether they are disputants, mediators, negotiators, lawyers, or other third parties. This can help you to see the forest and the trees; it is a critical step toward regaining some sense of accuracy, agency, possibility, and control in the situation.”
― The Five Percent: Finding Solutions to Seemingly Impossible Conflicts
― The Five Percent: Finding Solutions to Seemingly Impossible Conflicts
“I hope you never seek validation from others in any aspect of your life
I hope you are confident in your desires and remain true to your personal passions
I hope you cling to wonder and curiosity
I hope you recognize your power to manifest an intentional and tranquil life
I hope you are capable of being happy for others
I hope you understand that gratification is fleeting, as is every emotion and moment
I hope you find peace in simplicity
I hope you transform this world, but do not become lost in the trend”
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I hope you are confident in your desires and remain true to your personal passions
I hope you cling to wonder and curiosity
I hope you recognize your power to manifest an intentional and tranquil life
I hope you are capable of being happy for others
I hope you understand that gratification is fleeting, as is every emotion and moment
I hope you find peace in simplicity
I hope you transform this world, but do not become lost in the trend”
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“Try not to force your idea on someone, but rather think about it with him. If you feel you have won the discussion, that is the wrong attitude. Try not to win the argument; just listen to it.”
― Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind: Informal Talks on Zen Meditation and Practice
― Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind: Informal Talks on Zen Meditation and Practice
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