She had found there were very few genuinely dull people; the trick was to ask them the right questions.
“Emotionally, the devout Christian is insulated from the world and present life. Both the best of life and its problems are ignored. If this is not your home, you have little investment and a limited sense of responsibility or self-efficacy.”
― Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion
― Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion
“We’ve been complicit—not out of malice but because we have been groomed and raised in a system of racial injustice that has relied on our obliviousness and/or apathy to maintain its uninterrupted operation”
― The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love
― The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love
“This is one of the most insidious outcomes of conservative Christian teaching. Even though you were taught that God is love and Jesus is the good shepherd, you could never be loved unconditionally. You were not okay just as you were but were intrinsically bad, weak, needy, and incomplete — all due to events that happened long before you existed. You were saddled with “original sin” before you even had a chance.”
― Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion
― Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion
“Consider this hypothesis: when we don’t see ourselves reflected in the world around us, we make judgments about that absence. Invisibility is a statement.”
― The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love
― The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love
“The task of resisting our own oppression does not relieve us of the responsibility of acknowledging our complicity in the oppression of others.”
― Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?
― Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?
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