Cynthia

“Everything you say to a person is filtered through his frames of reference, biases, and preconceived ideas.”
― Thomas Erikson

“What you feel doesn’t matter in the end; it’s what you do that makes you brave.”
― Andre Agassi, Open

“growth paradoxically requires a kind of loss. Things that don’t change this way do not grow;”
― Nick Trenton, The Art of Letting Go: Stop Overthinking, Stop Negative Spirals, and Find Emotional Freedom

“For example, cheating partners might pick a fight with their spouse and get indignant and self-righteous in the argument. They then tell themselves that their spouse is a nag or unavailable or not empathetic. From there, it is a short leap to telling themselves it is okay to cheat, and, in fact, it is their spouse’s fault that they are unfaithful.”
― Michelle Mays, The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Hurts You the Worst