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“All I had to do was swap my memories for theirs, and I could have my family.”
― Tara Westover, Educated

“Through mirror neurons and resonance circuitry, we are taking in each other's bodily state, feelings and intention in each emerging moment (Iacoboni, 2009).

This gives us an approximate empathic sense of what is happening in the other person, but it is important to be aware that the information is also being filtered through our implicit lens.

This filtering colors our perceptions and pretty much guarantees there will be ruptures that invite repairs, as our offers of empathy will sometimes not reflect what the other person is experiencing.”
― Bonnie Badenoch, The Heart of Trauma: Healing the Embodied Brain in the Context of Relationships

“self-love is the best love”
― Londrelle, Eternal Sunshine

“An education is not so much about making a living as making a person.”
― Tara Westover, Educated