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The Future
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“That’s what these social media and big technology companies have done. They’ve found a way to siphon off something that no one used to be able to own. They invented a new kind of fence to make a new kind of enclosure. Ellen
“In this one-sex world, Queen Elizabeth I could refer to herself as both a feeble virgin and the nation’s husband, and artists could represent Eve’s partner, Adam, as pregnant.3 Before the Enlightenment, there were even paintings of Christ with breasts.”
― Nobody's Normal: How Culture Created the Stigma of Mental Illness
― Nobody's Normal: How Culture Created the Stigma of Mental Illness
“In some ways, my moods did and did not exist. People said that you could will a mood into being or will it away. Just think positively. But I never felt that way. My moods were their own entities, even if no one could understand why they were there. That was what made me scared of feelings. I realized now what I had to do, in spite of what others said, was not try to change a mood but surrender to it. I had to surrender to whatever feelings arrived and in doing so I could maybe ride them, floating on the waves. I decided I was going to surrender.”
― The Pisces
― The Pisces
“And, over time, urban-industrialized society would become increasingly responsible for controlling people whose differences might have been tolerated at home.21”
― Nobody's Normal: How Culture Created the Stigma of Mental Illness
― Nobody's Normal: How Culture Created the Stigma of Mental Illness
“A writer friend who is a practicing therapist as well once told me this is why writers write. They don’t feel seen. I”
― I'll Tell You in Person
― I'll Tell You in Person
“By the early 1800s, the reverse was true in European thought. Society had previously defined sex; now sex would define society. In the precapitalist one-sex world, one could move, like Marie Garnier, along the continuum of maleness. In the two-sex world, populated by both males and females, sex was fixed and inscribed in medical texts with new words to describe the female anatomy. Today we tend to think about sexual fluidity as something modern, but the reality is that sex has been fixed for only two centuries of the long history of Western civilization, and a number of non-Western societies have, for generations, recognized three, four, or five sexes, and with little or no stigma.”
― Nobody's Normal: How Culture Created the Stigma of Mental Illness
― Nobody's Normal: How Culture Created the Stigma of Mental Illness
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