“Don’t try to prove that anybody is foolish because fools don’t like it. Don’t try to prove to a madman that he is mad, because no madman likes it. He will get angry, arrogant, aggressive. He will kill you if you prove too much. If you come to the point where it can be proved, he will take revenge.
It is better to be foolish yourself, then people enjoy you, and then by a very subtle methodology you can help them change. Then they are not against you.”
― The Empty Boat: Talks on the Sayings of Chuang Tzu
It is better to be foolish yourself, then people enjoy you, and then by a very subtle methodology you can help them change. Then they are not against you.”
― The Empty Boat: Talks on the Sayings of Chuang Tzu
“...if you expect people to try to do things your way, you're going to have to give some hints as to what that way is.”
― Water for Elephants
― Water for Elephants
“This is one of the subtle things to be understood. We are always wise if we have to advise others but when we are in the same trap, with the same problem, the same crisis, we are not so wise. If somebody else comes to you with a problem, you will give him good advice and the advice may be right. But if you have the same problem you will not be able to give yourself the same advice. Why? Because when it is somebody else’s problem you are detached.”
― When the Shoe Fits: Stories of the Taoist Mystic Chuang Tzu
― When the Shoe Fits: Stories of the Taoist Mystic Chuang Tzu
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