Nina

“A person was like a city. You couldn't let a few less desirable parts put you off the whole. There may be bits you don't like, a few dodgy side streets and suburbs, but the good stuff makes it worthwhile.”
― Matt Haig, The Midnight Library

“The only way to learn is to live.”
― Matt Haig, The Midnight Library

“Außerdem zeigte sich nach ein paar Jahrzehnten, in denen der Neoliberalismus die vorherrschende Denkart gewesen war, dass seine Behauptungen sehr offensichtlich nicht mit der Realität übereinstimmten. Da lag es nahe, aus der Ideologie eine Religion zu machen, ist es doch eines der hervorstechendsten Merkmale von Religionen, dass sie sehr offensichtlich nicht mit der Realität übereinstimmen. Was der Neoliberalismus verspricht, kann man mit gesundem Menschenverstand nicht nachvollziehen. Das muss man schon glauben.”
― Marc-Uwe Kling, QualityLand 2.0

“It is easy to mourn the lives we aren't living. Easy to wish we'd developed other other talents, said yes to different offers. Easy to wish we'd worked harder, loved better, handled our finances more astutely, been more popular, stayed in the band, gone to Australia, said yes to the coffee or done more bloody yoga.
It takes no effort to miss the friends we didn't make and the work we didn't do the people we didn't do and the people we didn't marry and the children we didn't have. It is not difficult to see yourself through the lens of other people, and to wish you were all the different kaleidoscopic versions of you they wanted you to be. It is easy to regret, and keep regretting, ad infinitum, until our time runs out.
But it is not lives we regret not living that are the real problem. It is the regret itself. It's the regret that makes us shrivel and wither and feel like our own and other people's worst enemy.
We can't tell if any of those other versions would of been better or worse. Those lives are happening, it is true, but you are happening as well, and that is the happening we have to focus on.”
― Matt Haig, The Midnight Library