“This is what most girls are taught—that we should be slender and small. We should not take up space. We should be seen and not heard, and if we are seen, we should be pleasing to men, acceptable to society. And most women know this, that we are supposed to disappear, but it’s something that needs to be said, loudly, over and over again, so that we can resist surrendering to what is expected of us.”
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
“The medical community is not particularly interested in taking the pain of women seriously.”
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
“Fat daughters and their thin mothers have especially complicated relationships.”
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
“Part of the reason relationships and friendships can be so difficult for me is because there is a part of me that thinks I have to get things just right. I have to say the right things and do the right things or I won’t be liked or loved anymore.”
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
“Doctors are supposed to first do no harm, but when it comes to fat bodies, most doctors seem fundamentally incapable of heeding their oath.”
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
― Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
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