Invisibility means not being able to connect with others like you. It means being very likely to come to the conclusion that you are broken. It means seeing no boxes to check and being filled with fear or shame or frustration. It means
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“People are taught that they’re expected to like cross-sex partners. When asexual people find themselves not feeling heterosexual attraction, they look at the orientations available to them and sometimes think being gay is the only other option. They may also think they are bisexual, polysexual, or pansexual. Observing that their interest in one gender is the same as any other, they may pick up one of the terms that seems to describe that, without realizing asexuality is a possibility.”
― The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality
― The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality
“• Maybe it confuses you when people’s ultimate fantasies include sex. Your thoughts on getting three wishes, fulfilling a bucket list, or having your last Earthly experiences on Doomsday would not involve sex.”
― The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality
― The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality
“Trinity was one of those happy, super-popular, high-energy girls who reminded Amy of the creatures from Gremlins: she was fun for about half an hour, then you wanted to stuff her in a blender.”
― Horrorstör
― Horrorstör
“I know exactly what you need,” Mark said. — “Welcome to Waffle House,” the waitress said, coming over to their back corner booth and stopping short.”
― How to Sell a Haunted House
― How to Sell a Haunted House
“Flu made who,” Fran said bleakly. “Pardon?” “Never mind,” Fran said. Her father was amazingly broad-minded, but an AC/DC fan he was not.”
― The Stand
― The Stand
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