Pregnancy had brought a list of worries—episiotomies, prolapse, preeclampsia. I was so preoccupied with the idea of losing my body, it had never occurred to me that I might lose my mind.
“Giving in to cravings of the mind that ultimately hurt the body is like a weak parent giving in to her child.”
― Verity
― Verity
“I wish I didn’t feel that way. But I suspect, deep down, you think it, too. Because you didn’t come here and tell me how much you miss me. Or how hard it has been to live without me. You said you didn’t want to give up. And look, I don’t want to give up, either. I don’t want to fail at this. But that’s not actually a great reason to stay together. We should have reasons why we don’t want to give up. It shouldn’t just be that we don’t want to give up. And I don’t… I don’t have any.” I’m unsure how to say what I want to say gently. So I just say it. “You have never felt like my other half.”
― The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
― The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
“This big ol’ world and we only get to go through it once. The saddest thing there is, you ask me.”
― The Vanishing Half
― The Vanishing Half
“Black people love their children with a kind of obsession. You are all we have, and you come to us endangered. I think we would like to kill you ourselves before seeing you killed by the streets that America made.”
― Between the World and Me
― Between the World and Me
“Pregnancy had brought a list of worries—episiotomies, prolapse, preeclampsia. I was so preoccupied with the idea of losing my body, it had never occurred to me that I might lose my mind.”
― Inferno: A Memoir of Motherhood and Madness
― Inferno: A Memoir of Motherhood and Madness
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