“And this is what I learned: that the world’s otherness is antidote to confusion, that standing within this otherness—the beauty and the mystery of the world, out in the fields or deep inside books—can re-dignify the worst-stung heart.”
― Upstream: Selected Essays
― Upstream: Selected Essays
“We live amid surfaces, and the true art of life is to skate on them well,” wrote Emerson. Is it true? If so, who can bear to believe it?”
― The Art of Cruelty: A Reckoning
― The Art of Cruelty: A Reckoning
“Why should I feel lonely? is not our planet in the Milky Way?” (Thoreau).”
― Bluets
― Bluets
“It is easier, of course, to find dignity in one’s solitude. Loneliness is solitude with a problem.”
― Bluets
― Bluets
“The answer is not coming. I have to find an arbitrary point inside the spell of waiting, the open absence, and tear myself away. Leave, with no answer. Move on to the next question.”
― The Flamethrowers
― The Flamethrowers
Stephanie’s 2025 Year in Books
Take a look at Stephanie’s Year in Books, including some fun facts about their reading.
Favorite Genres
Polls voted on by Stephanie
Lists liked by Stephanie


























