“Triggers are like little psychic explosions that crash through avoidance and bring the dissociated, avoided trauma suddenly, unexpectedly, back into consciousness.”
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“People may not realize the damage that they are doing by placing the blame on the victim ~ but that doesn't lessen the damage that they cause by doing it.”
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“Denial forces victims to retreat in lifeless existence, dieing in the shadows of buried trauma and painful memories.”
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“There is a much greater skepticism toward the memories of those who claim abuse than toward the memories of those who deny it.”
― Relational Remembering: Rethinking the Memory Wars
― Relational Remembering: Rethinking the Memory Wars
“Sometimes the shame is not the beatings, not the rape.
The shaming is in being asked to stand judgment.”
― When I Hit You: Or, A Portrait of the Writer as a Young Wife
The shaming is in being asked to stand judgment.”
― When I Hit You: Or, A Portrait of the Writer as a Young Wife
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