Tomomi

“Workers who continually take on duties that aren’t theirs will eventually burn out. It takes wisdom to know what we should be doing and what we shouldn’t. We can’t do everything.”
― Henry Cloud, Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No

“One of the first signs that you’re beginning to develop boundaries is a sense of resentment, frustration, or anger at the subtle and not-so-subtle violations in your life. Just as radar signals the approach of a foreign missile, your anger can alert you to boundary violations in your life.”
― Henry Cloud, Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No

“Love is not blind; that is the last thing that it is. Love is bound; and the more it is bound the less it is blind.”
― G.K. Chesterton, Orthodoxy

“People who have never questioned their attitudes and beliefs can fall prey to the dynamics that Jesus referred to when he described people holding on to the "traditions of men," instead of the commands of God.”
― Henry Cloud, Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life