Dori

“And therein lies the problem: our actions always determine our consequences – for good or for bad.”
― Vaughn Carter, Help Me, I'm Stuck: Six Proven Methods to Shift Your Mindset From Self-Sabotage to Self-Improvement

“people who are hurting don’t need Avoiders, Protectors, or Fixers. What we need are patient, loving witnesses. People to sit quietly and hold space for us. People to stand in helpless vigil to our pain.”
― Glennon Doyle Melton, Love Warrior

“what is motivation? The dictionary defines motivation as “the act of motivating.” To motivate means to provide someone with a reason to do something. For example, I was motivated to write this book to help other women like my friends. The reason you’re probably reading it right now is that you recognize the need for help, and you’re motivated to get unstuck. But the truth is, motivation (the reason for doing what you do) isn’t the key ingredient to becoming unstuck. Commitment is – and if you find yourself fully committed (determined to reach your goal), then motivation will follow.”
― Vaughn Carter, Help Me, I'm Stuck: Six Proven Methods to Shift Your Mindset From Self-Sabotage to Self-Improvement

“Being stuck is the direct result of letting someone or something else hold power over you.”
― Vaughn Carter, Help Me, I'm Stuck: Six Proven Methods to Shift Your Mindset From Self-Sabotage to Self-Improvement