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“I have scarcely felt greater pain in my life” than on learning the news. “And yet,” he added, “there is very little in it, if you will allow no feeling of discouragement to seize, and prey upon you.” He told him to go see Harvard’s president and learn what obstacles he had to overcome, and how to overcome them. “In your temporary failure,” he wrote, “there is no evidence that you may not yet be a better scholar, and a more successful man in the great struggle of life, than many others, who have entered college more easily.” Lincoln said he knew this was true from his own “severe experience.” Indeed, many people of this era sought success in the “great struggle of life,” but there were few who felt the struggle more acutely.”
― Joshua Wolf Shenk, Lincoln's Melancholy: How Depression Challenged a President and Fueled His Greatness