Status Updates From The Little Black Book of Bi...

When everything your man does is justified with some self-serving pretext, he’ll quickly wear down your patience until it’s tissue paper thin.

THE BOTTOM LINE:
Women often have a strong hunch that they’re dating a gay man, but
have trouble admitting it to themselves, probably because gay men and
straight women get along so darn well

Whether interested in other men, other women, or squirrels, if a guy’s
heart, head, or hard-on is elsewhere, he’s not 100 percent committed to
you, nor being 100 percent honest with you. Since commitment and
honesty are the glue of any strong relationship, yours will eventually
fracture without them

Chapter Four
He May Like Men

When it feels like your relationship with a guy is in fast-forward, hit
pause and re-evaluate the reasons he claims to be so into you. If he
never offers concrete reasons why you’re specifically the one, he’s
trying to manipulate you into dropping your drawers.

We’ve got news for you: A woman’s intuition is her best defense
against getting played. Don’t deny common sense—you’ll just end up
kicking yourself down the road when your gut feeling is confirmed.

A man who wants you in his life will not just fit you in, but plan
around you, no matter how busy he is.

This is literally true. The 'plan around you' part.

The truth is, if he sounds too good to be true, he probably is. This guy
knows all the lines to lay on the charm and all the moves to make you
swoon. It may sound like he’s acting from the heart but, really, he’s just
acting.

The truth is, if he sounds too good to be true, he probably is. This guy
knows all the lines to lay on the charm and all the moves to make you
swoon. It may sound like he’s acting from the heart but, really, he’s just
acting.

“Can I confess something? I think you’re going to be my wife.”
SUPER RED FLAG!!! HAHA

You may think you’re in love with your charming chap simply
because you get those giddy butterflies in your belly every time he
comes around. But those flutters could be the work of anxious moths
signaling that you’re uneasy over not knowing how the guy really feels
about you.

It makes sense.

red flag: You’re not his plus one.

But when he’s tagging along on a couples weekend getaway and doesn’t mention anything about you joining, you might start to wonder whether his pals even know you exist.

If they
never have that talk, they theoretically don’t have to walk the walk

We’ve learned this lesson the hard way: Just because you’re sleeping
with a guy, going out to dinner, receiving flowers from him on your
birthday, and spending the night at his place every weekend, you’re not
necessarily his girlfriend unless you’ve had “the talk.”

Red-Flag Rule #1: If you’re not sure whether or not you’re a
guy’s girlfriend, you probably aren’t.