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The author only mentioned 2 qualities (Din & Character) to be sought in husband as opposed to 9 in women (Righteousness, character, virginity, Fertility, Loving Attitude, Contentment, Innocence, Beauty, Compatibility).

But I believe there's more to be said than only just "Din and Character", especially when nowadays religiosity is measured only through the ritualistic aspect of the religion. Here's my addition:

I’m learning so much about the etiquette of the walimah and how Muslims should treat guests and how we should act. SubhanAllah, our religion is so, so, so beautiful. A new goal I’m going to consciously strive towards is my etiquette as a host/guest

I had no idea that we are exempted from lowering our gazes when courting someone for marriage, subhanAllah. The Rasul ﷺ encouraged it, too