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Getting in the right state of mind, helps you to enjoy the conversation that you’re having. Techniques like moving and breathing helps to regulate your state of mind. It will also be good to collect positive states regularly. Staying present and aware, keeps the conversation flowing naturally. When internal thoughts sabotage you, external focus calms you. Always stay curious and trust yourself and your listener.

Connection matters the most, as it creates necessary trust for a satisfying conversation. There are usually two types of people, radiators and drains. Drains such as enthu robo echo ego gossip and moaners. Important to find a common ground in order to have a two way conversation. Common language allows both parties to understand better, so as non verbal connections (body language, voice tone and energy).

I learned that conversation can be seen as a two-way dance. When we take turns to lead the conversation, sometimes it can be tough, sometimes it can be elegant. Here are 9 pointers for a good conversation. 1) take turns to speak; 2) speak precisely and easily: 3) Do not interrupt; 4) be courteous; 5) react accordingly to topics; 6) Be upfront; 7) Stick to subject; 8) DO NOT talk about yourself; 9) Never lose temper