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Tired of Trying to Measure Up: Getting Free from the Demands, Expectations, and Intimidation of Well-Meaning People Tired of Trying to Measure Up: Getting Free from the Demands, Expectations, and Intimidation of Well-Meaning People
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Khari
Khari is on page 153 of 176
Nov 21, 2025 02:46AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 134 of 176
I do not find his arguments against inborn sin to be at all convincing. They seem more based on his personal preference and logic than anything biblical.

If you are going to argue about an alternate interpretation of the Bible. You need to back yourself up with texts from the Bible itself, not with sophistry.
Nov 18, 2025 04:15AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 134 of 176
Again, yes, Christ came 'in the flesh' but that just means that he had a body, it's not being used at all in the same way as Romans 5 uses it because it's contrasting being ruled by the spirit and ruled by the sin nature.

If the doctrine of the sin nature were not true, then why would Christ need to be born of a virgin? The seed of the woman? The whole reason for the virgin birth was to annul inborn sin from Adam.
Nov 18, 2025 04:13AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 134 of 176
Yes, the word flesh is used positively and negatively in the Bible. But it depends on the context. When it is talking about the flesh in contrast with the spirit, it's almost entirely negative. So, yes, the flesh nature is carnality and unrepentance.
Getting rid of the theology of universal sin just because the Bible uses 'flesh' in different senses is a huge issue.
Nov 18, 2025 04:09AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 130 of 176
Nov 17, 2025 02:37AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 126 of 176
Uh. What about in Romans, when Paul literally says that he finds a law in him that which he does not want to do he does?

I think he is mistaking justification and sanctification together. Plus, I don't find his argument convincing.

You can't just say 'the greek means something different' and then not back it up. I mean he doesn't even tell us the greek word so we can look it up ourselves. And he says 'Personally'
Nov 17, 2025 02:33AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 126 of 176
The bad news is that there is no excuse for falling short. The Good news is that there is forgiveness and cleansing.
Nov 17, 2025 02:27AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 121 of 176
Nov 13, 2025 02:45AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 92 of 176
"For a person to assess his life as victorious based upon how well he has followed the Law indicates that his source of satisfaction is derived from his own self-effort. This is idolatrous; it leads to self-righteousness, and it is not what God intended."
Nov 11, 2025 06:56AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 82 of 176
...I think I might have a problem. Lol.
Nov 06, 2025 02:47AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 82 of 176
On overcoming difficulty. On taking the need to change the plan in stride, and on moving through it.

I just sat there and was like...Yeah, but it was awful. I could have done better. I should have done better. Taking the bad lesson in stride is called being professional, it's expected, the bare minimum, not something to be praised for. Oh. Lookie there, I've managed to completely reject everything she said.....
Nov 06, 2025 02:47AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 82 of 176
So...yeah...I do that.

Yesterday, for instance, I had an observation. I thought it went terribly. The students didn't get what I was trying to teach them, I didn't have as much involvement as I normally have, you could literally see them getting more and more confused, and the class didn't move forward at all.

In short, it sucked.

My supervisor thought it went well! She complimented me on my ability to persevere
Nov 06, 2025 02:45AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 82 of 176
"Even when affirmations and support come through your shame-grid, your mind rejects the praise. You simply don't believe the messages. What comes through is, "It's not true; I'm still not good enough. I could do better. Besides, if people knew what I'm really like, they wouldn't be give me all these strokes." Or you push away the validation because 'humility' earned a lot of points in the past."
Nov 06, 2025 02:43AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 72 of 176
Nov 04, 2025 02:25AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 57 of 176
"No one's shame can be eradicated by the performance of another."
Oct 31, 2025 02:40AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 32 of 176
"A system will actually use more time and energy not dealing with issues than with dealing with them."

Boy is that ever true.
Oct 27, 2025 02:29AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 23 of 176
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Khari
Khari is on page 16 of 176
"Consequently, you develop a shame-based way of looking at yourself. You accept the view that others might slip up and make mistakes once in a while, but they're still basically worthwhile people. You, however, are a like a mirror image of that: No matter how many times you get it right (whatever it is, according to ...your environment) you will never be acceptable. Down deep, you believe something is wrong with you"
Oct 23, 2025 02:44AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 16 of 176
"Shame...is not just a feeling, though we often speak of it that way...Shame is the belief or mindset that something is wrong with you. It's something that you can live with and not necessarily be aware of it. It's not that you feel bad about your behavior, it's that you sense or believe you are deficient, defective or worthless as a human being."
Oct 23, 2025 02:42AM Add a comment
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Khari
Khari is on page 12 of 176
Healthy behaviors result from an identity that's healthy and fully based upon God's performance on our behalf.
Oct 22, 2025 02:52AM Add a comment
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Kristy Gamez
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Stephen
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Ramona
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