Status Updates From Ejacula Com Responsabilidade

Women have “been taught the pleasure and convenience of men are paramount. We’ve been taught to diminish our own pain. […] [W]e’ve put the burden of pregnancy prevention on women. We’ve put the burden on the person who is fertile for 24 hours a month, instead of the person who is fertile 24 hours a day, every day of their life.”

[W]e’ve been told […] that it doesn’t feel as good as sex without a condom. (Meaning it doesn’t feel as good *for men.* What it feels like for their partner doesn’t really enter into the discussion.)

“Successful condom users report that once they solved the size, materials, and lubrication questions, they could barely tell a difference between sex with a condom and sex without.”

“Birth control options for men are very effective plus vastly easier, safer, more convenient, more accessible, and more affordable than birth control options for women. Given this, the expectation ought to be that a man uses a condom every time he has sex. And if a man is deeply condom-averse, it should be an absolute given that he would get a vasectomy.”

Condoms “don’t cause depression, mood swings, blood clots, liver failure, weight gain, acne, strokes, or anything else on the list of side effects for hormonal birth control.”

point is
“we need to understand very clearly that women enjoying sex does not cause unwanted pregnancies and abortion. What causes unwanted pregnancies and abortion? Men enjoying sex and having irresponsible ejaculations”

“When I write that a woman experiencing pleasure and orgasm has never caused a pregnancy, what this means is a woman can be the sluttiest slut in the entire world—she could do nothing but have orgasms all day and all night during penetrative sex with multiple partners and no unwanted pregnancies will ever occur unless a man ejaculates irresponsibly in her body.”

“When the choice is between maximizing men’s pleasure or minimizing women’s pain, society will predictably choose men.
When it comes to birth control, and really, life in general, we favor preserving men’s convenience, peace of mind, and pleasure over preventing or relieving women’s suffering.”

i’m so angry, it’s not even funny🥹

vasectomies are always performed with at least a local anesthetic, while pain meds are rarely if ever used for IUD insertions. these two procedures one for men, and one for women are both invasive and both involve very sensitive body parts. It’s expected that the procedure will be painful for men, so pain relief is always administered. For women, it’s expected that if it is painful, the women will just endure it

“we’ve put the burden of pregnancy prevention on women. We’ve put the burden on the person who is fertile for 24 hours a month, instead of the person who is fertile 24 hours a day, every day of their life.”

i love this woman🧍‍♀️

“You might think women would be angry at men about all this. But mostly, we’re not. We’ve been raised in the same culture as men. We’ve been taught the pleasure and convenience of men are paramount. We’ve been taught to diminish our own pain. And the lessons have stuck. We’ve taught those same lessons to others.”
😭😭

“there has never been a documented death from a vasectomy. However, many women have died from anesthetic or surgical complications from a tubal ligation.”

“Perhaps the problem isn’t condoms but the way we talk about condoms. Or, more accurately the way we don’t talk about condoms—if a man believes sex without condoms is a conquest, he’s not likely to talk about the benefits of condoms with other men he knows.”

“Again: If women are expected to learn how to use their birth control correctly, the same can be expected of men.” i.e. condoms, vasectomies, “pull out”- method