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And the truth is there’s no such thing as closure when someone’s life has been lost. The word feels too neat, too final. I learned many years ago to stop reaching for it. What I found instead was a rhythm. A way to carry the weight and keep moving away.”

“Therapy wasn’t some magical remedy. It was excavation work—dirty, exhausting. Sometimes it felt like I was clawing through concrete with bloodied fingernails just to uncover one small truth about myself. But slowly, painfully, I unearthed tools buried deep within.”

“But diminishing my light never increased his.”

Insecure men never seem to look inward - they rather abuse women going for what they want