Status Updates From The Book of Boundaries

“”My limit is not to go more than 5 days without sexual intimacy” isn’t often viable, because holding that depends on someone else (…) “I won’t consent to sexual intimacy under pressure”” wtffffff ?!! Implying that “consent under pressure” even exists?? It’s coercion or marital rape tf. Chapter 6 reeks of misogyny and I’m truly struggling to make it through that chapter.

“”My limit is not to go more than 5 days without sexual intimacy” isn’t often viable, because holding that depends on someone else (…) “I won’t consent to sexual intimacy under pressure”” wtffffff ?!! Implying that “consent under pressure” even exists?? It’s coercion or marital rape tf. Chapter 6 reeks of misogyny and I’m truly struggling to make it through that chapter.

3 negative points so far : 1. The chapters are long af, 45 pages per chapter makes this feel endless. 2. There’s a million too many scripts and lists, pages like 172 could have been reduced to a singular sentence! 3. Chapter 6 is hard to get through. She lost me at “pattern of behaviour in which your partner continually fails to respect your needs (…) a therapist could help”. LEAVE is what it should have said