Status Updates From Trans Sex: A Guide for Adults

Just finished the chapter about surgeries, and I think I was unable to follow 🥲

"Sex is bimodal rather than binary, and there are both a wide variety of ways in which genitals can form; and no clear dividing line between particular kinds of genitals."

"Uncoupling sexual desire from the idea of a 'drive' is important for two big reasons. First, it ends any implication that there is such a thing as a right to sex - a desire for sex that feels urgent does not mean that somebody has a right to sex with another person (...). Second, understanding sex as a drive implies that sexual desire is usually or always spontaneous."