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“Repeatedly. Mistakes are expected and rapidly and continually forgiven.”
Unfortunately this simple rule doesn't happen. Somehow the rules are reversed and the child becomes the parent. Always performing, never make mistakes, hide what they feel, want, or think. Cause their true self is met with shame, guilt and scolding. Parents would curse their fate for having such a child !
They wanted a savior, not a child ...

"Not all humans are humane. A human being has to learn how to become humane."
Some are born human and never grow beyond it. They reject empathy, silence their conscience, and choose destruction over care. Wherever they pass, lives are bent, trust is broken, and suffering is normalized. The cruelty of the world is not an accident; it is built by those who decide that being humane is optional.

“And in old age these sources of happiness most necessarily dry up:—love leaves us then, and wit, desire to travel, delight in horses, aptitude for social intercourse; friends and relations, too, are taken from us by death. Then more than ever, it depends upon what a man has in himself; for this will stick to him longest; and at any period of life it is the only genuine and lasting source of happiness."