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Ok sister-cat and Mama done got on my nerves.

Oh hell no. I think he did it on purpose because he knew…

I’m this far into the book and there’s one little detail in this entire story that doesn’t make this an easy choice for me

Lord. Ima smack the hell out of a lawyer today.

I have no clue what’s going on but I like it.

Does Claudia like Monday like that? Oh Lawd.

Oh hell naw…she’s married? I was not expecting that.

Lord forgive me but please don’t let him fall for this white girl.

“The other one”

I love it here!!! I started today and I’ll finish tomorrow by noon. That’s my goal.

One word: THERAPY

Well, damn. However, there is no right way to bear this kind of news. Even though I’m getting frustrated with her, I don’t wanna pass judgment because I wouldn’t know what to do in this situation, but I do know that she needs to go to Therapy with her old ass.

I like Dominic but I would’ve Kareemed her. Well at least he did with his words.

I can understand her feeling the way that she felt and I can even understand her blaming her father for not being there. But now that I’m a parent, I am seeing that I am going to be making so many mistakes. I hope my daughter isn’t expecting perfection from me or that.

Congrats? Ugh

DELULU Land!

This chapter was definitely a roller coaster ride. Another member of my book club said there’s no development in the plot because it’s the same thing over and over again and now I can’t see it. I still don’t like the relationship though so whatever.

The more the story goes on the more I’m not liking any of the relationships. I agree that everything feels so rushed and delusional at the same time. There’s still a baby coming and I wonder if she will be strong enough to deal with it like she’s been in this whole time. Or not.

I don’t know how I feel about this guys. Well, I do believe they love each other. I feel like if it was true life-changing events wouldn’t have made them want to make the decision decisions that they’re making. It’s just all a little emotional irrational to me.

I mean… In the words of Layla “well shit”

Oh. Somebody pay for the snacks and I’ll pay for the popcorn because I knew this conversation was going to blow up like this. I wish I were her friend because I wouldn’t have encouraged them to have a conversation so soon. So here we are again having a conversation that we’re not ready for

Oh shit. I figured this was a possibility the closer that we got to this chapter. And I hate that I feel like she can’t even be mad at how things are playing out because this is exactly what was said was gonna happen. But she still trying, and I don’t really admire her for it.

All these emotions she’s having at one time. It’s exactly why I said she wasn’t ready for what she felt. She was ready for in my opinion. Here she is freaking out, but this is exactly what he said was going to happen.

I’m conflicted because I want Layla to have what she wants but I feel like at this time. Layla doesn’t know what she wants because the person that she wants has completely changed and is expecting to change yet again. She also let him lead the whole conversation which was stupid in my opinion.

I’m conflicted. I am not against William and Layla talking, but I’m wondering if it’s too soon. However, I don’t think that something like this should be sat on because it is such an emotional thing. I just don’t know.

Where is Jerry Springer? So I’m gonna wait for the doctor before I get in my feels. But I think we’re all thinking that one of them is lying and the other one is experiencing something else. I’m trying not to spoil it.

I couldn’t believe she was considering being with him even with the news...so I started being like “I mean technically it could work” and I also wasn’t expecting him to pull back like that.

Ok lots of sex! But will this news change things for her and Will? I think so…no matter how hard they try to navigate this.

Poor Nana, in heaven, kissing her husband and listening to her grand daughter get cracked for an entire chapter.

What sucks is I have my own Will. We used to play the same game every few years of reconnecting and it being super strong but ultimately decide. We are no good for each other. But I must’ve really messed up this last time because he ain’t waiting for no message from me lol