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Keeping one's composure to gain hope at a reasonable state creates mental fortitude. The author ends his autobiography that involved romanticism: it felt like a story rather than works of a psychiatrist. This might trigger loss of credibility in the following ideas to be defended.

Instead of constantly questioning the meaning of life we should think of ourselves as people who are being tested by life everyday; life is an eventual process of finding the correct answers to the questions that caused by problems, yet it is impossible to equate a life of one to another as no destiny can be compared to another; accepting suffering and isolation as destiny triggers mental resilience in life

One should not aim for success or happiness: they should come naturally while doing other things; the freedom of the soul is still possible despite being a prisoner in the physical world; a life without a plan towards the future is bound to dissolve and trigger uncertainty as well as death itself; loss of the reason why we live leads us to death.

Personal memoirs of the author in Auschwitz; one should not tease themselves by things they do not possess; love and hope are possible even in the direst possibilities in life; one can be used to almost anything quoted by Dostoyevsky.

Intellectual terrorism; fanaticism in psychological community; biased normalisation of certain sexualities over others; blindness in psychological community that prevents them from thinking broadly; the analyst should cease to direct their own presuppositions, values and worldly beliefs on the patient; the analysts can use the opportunities of the profession to heal their own traumas.

Ethical considerations if a patient shows perverse signs that overrule one's consent such as pedophilia, sadism or rape; Western jurisdictions allow perverse sexual practices as long as consent is given by both parties; perverse tendencies that is dubious in legality need to be understood through psychoanalysis instead of annulling the process in order to heal them; analysts need to stand their ground of neutrality.

Using sexuality as an addiction and sexual fixation may be linked to the following cases exposed to the child during childhood: i) deliberate disrespect between two parents ii) abandonment of one parent iii) a parent deliberately withholds the child from making contact to another parent.

Inversion refers to homosexuality or transsexual behaviour, whereas perversion explains fetishism, voyeurism, exhibitionism, sadomashochism. All of them seem to derive from an inappropriate degree of closeness towards mother or father. The restriction of inversion or perversion may be felt as sterilisation.

Prenatal presuppositions which ultimately are conversed to behaviours affect child development. If a mother is over-anxious she will not grant a healthy distance from the child, and the child will eventually develop psychosomatic symptoms. A system eventually breaks free from Oedipal incestuous desires through creating sexual desire as well as deep love bonds in the adult phase. Every kind of somatisation is a clue.

Suppressed feelings in childhood trigger fixation, psychosomatic illnesses, aggression in sexuality, behavioural inconsistencies that resemble bipolar disorder & hysterical conversion. Instead of keeping the emotions suppressed, it is much more helpful to lash out the emotions including sexual remarks: this also helps the analyst during therapy to collect symbols and infer symbolic connections.

Ulcer, anorexia, panic attacks, bulimia, dermatological cases such as eczema, digestive and excreting issues may be related to psychosomatosis. Several cases are extremely related to Oedipal complex: the patients have a critically terrible relationship with their mothers.

Human creativity is based on the amalgamation of two sexes. If bisexual nature is not formed, or if it is polarised at one side, hiatus may be experienced. The notions of fate and destiny are explained in layers: generational trauma in upbringing may not be changed, yet psychological resilience and responsive personality can be changed, therefore any “hidden calendar” abnormalities can be linked to psychosomatism

All past and current trauma have an effect on creativity: if past trauma involves forced behaviour by their parent(s), the person may have a high tendency to act severely against the behaviour.

The clinical case of severe sexual identity crisis caused by abandonment of a parent and over-fixation by the other, potentially leading to hiatus of creativity and belief in love. The patient often feels that they need to change in order to be loved. If they cannot find love, they have tendencies to develop abnormalities.

The link between sexuality and creativity: art might hold an expression of suppressed sexuality; a very detailed clinical case involving abandonment of a father and cannibalistic mother; traumatic primal scenes affect art generated and personal characteristics.

Abnormal autoerotic behaviour that involves tools other than hands, grinding, urine, faeces. Introductory analysis on the ability of creativity: dissolving the myth, by naming legendary artists, that a creative person often is jobless, living in Bohemia, has tendencies of sexual abnormalities.

If a father tells his daughter "Look after your mom when I am gone. You're the man of the house now.", he is responsible for blurring the future gender identity of the girl. Discussing briefly about abnormal sexual tendencies: exhibitionism, bondage, domination, discipline, sadism, masochism. All sexually perverted behaviour are erotic forms of hatred.

Homosexuality may appear in females if i) there is a severe opposition to discussing sexual or hygienic matters, ii) if her family had initially expected a male child, iii) if the family continues to treat her as they had a boy. Discussing transsexuality: JD refers to their conflict of anatomical sex and gender identity as "not a delusion" and that they should not be identified as psychotics.

A freudian approach to dream analyses by her client involving homosexuality. Cross-references of dreams between the analyst and the client. Joyce boldly claims that homosexuality is much more common, and people may have inert homosexual tendencies to family members if they have adverse attitudes to homosexuality. In the sub-header "Defining Heterosexuality", JM says that lesbian women are the same as straight women.

Introduction to the female psychology: basic principles of libidinal theory, femininity in autoeroticism, horrid fear of death in considering sexuality as well as masturbation.

Freudian analyses of clinical cases regarding different types of love such as “suffocating love”, “gluttonous love”, “respiratory love”, “urophillic love”, “vampiric union”; there are two tasks in order to psychologically transform from a girl to a woman: a) alter the stimulus organ from clitoris to vagina, b) change the libidinal fixated desire of object from the mother to the father (man).

Intro on the life of Joyce McDougall and her resolve in choosing neutrality during times of conflict in the psychiatric communities; libidinous deviances towards homosexuality and bisexuality; oedipal behaviour; claiming the notion that all sexuality is traumatic one way or another.

Instructors in universities are unfortunately oblivious to creating rapport with their students, unlike high school teachers. There is an elitist culture for instructors working in universities to have this unreachable attitude and act like they are the only trustful sources of knowledge. Their “encyclopaedic” approach only degrade the education system to value memory rather than intellect.

It is a nonsense to believe that a) one cannot find time for intellectual development within 24 hours and b) large metropolitan cities are the only places for accumulating intellectual capacity. Both are being told by those who are against decentralising the monopoly of intellectuals in the parliament and those who have internalised sloth to their bones.

Overcoming lust and protecting sexual energy; refusing to be amicable to those who have lustful plans; ceasing to drink alcohol or to eat excessive amount of meat products; only laying down on a bed when needed and getting up immediately after waking up; avoiding to purchase a very comfortable bed; criticism on current literature and on doctors always stating the false narrative that only love is needed in life.

On the idea of marriage in humility: girls or women who are excessively interested in worldly passions are to be avoided by men, as smart girls or women who are exceptionally ahead of them in terms of deep thought and understanding can provide an invaluable bridge between the outer world and the inner world of men; a conjoined life in humility provides stronger bonds in marriage.

Resting and getting energy is necessary for consistent effort: taking breaks is essential; nighttime studies are to be avoided; no matter how much time sleep requires, it is a must not to postpone staying awake at bed as it generally reinforced the idea of self-pleasuring activities; instead of being suffocated participating in indoor sports, it is recommended to go for ice skating, swimming or gardening.

Physical exercise is great for overcoming the dullness of life as well as sloth, yet if the physical exercise is overwhelming it eventually blocks mental capacity; there is a weighing dissent in the idea of athleticism: meaning that it is illogical to be proud of physical qualities that cannot even be matched with that of animals; physical and mental prowess cannot be sustained together, meaning one needs to go.

Stretching exercises where two arms reach up in the air and involves deep breathing, and slowly arching the arms on the sides, therefore repeating the natural involuntary stretching happening in the morning.

Implications of physical soundness and health towards intellectual faculties of mind: considering the effects and providing solutions for warmth, cold, humidity, air quality, food, exercise; it is not advisable to consume meat more than necessary; unusual surge of albumin destructs the body; unnecessary consumption of food consumes too much energy for digestion that it interferes intellectual capacity.