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“All you had to do was say that you loved him - say that you loved him and mean it with your whole useless human heart, and his power would have been freed. You stupid, stupid girl.”

Alis, you read my thoughts exactly 😭 bc howwww are u gonna tell me all Feyre had to do was say I love you back to Tamlin & she had the perfect opportunity 🤬

“‘Feyre’ he whispered again - not in question, but simply as if he enjoyed saying it.”


the glamour makes soooo much sense LOL I was like how is there basically nobody at the Spring Court 😭but turns out Tamlin put glamour over Feyre

“All those years, what I did for them… and they didn’t try to stop you from taking me.”

I don’t understand Feyre’s family dynamics especially w her sisters.

“Real love should never wear the guise of fear or control.”

Chapter 9

“Overall, blame-riddled responses can encourage the belief that mistakes (even honest ones!) take away from our worthiness as people.”

“Instead of, ‘I am angry’ try, ‘I feel anger’.”

This will help you externalize the emotion, separate it from your core identity, and learn how to embrace it as one of many that come and go.”

Chapter 5 - Feeling My Way Through

“Anger is not a ‘bad’ emotion.

It’s healthy and can alert us to feeling betrayed, frustrated, sad, and disappointment, and so on.

It has only been categorized as ‘bad’ socially and culturally.”

Chapter 5

“Children are meant to challenge and question things in order to build a strong and stable foundation for their own beliefs and senses of self.”

Chapter 4

“While these are survival coping mechanisms, some people who experience trauma may build up hyper vigilant and overreactive nervous systems that (because of past experiences) perceive threats even when they may not be present.”

Chapter 3

REMINDER:

“Pain and suffering are not a competition.

It may be true that your parents or family members have experienced hardships and suffering, and your mental health struggles are valid, too.”

Chapter 3

“Gratitude shaming, or shaming ourselves into feeling grateful rather than what we’re actually feeling, is a common behaviour in children of immigrants.”

“It’s also known as toxic positivity or spiritual bypassing and is used to avoid unresolved or even difficult feelings.”

Chapter 3

“How much we valued ourselves was directly tied to how well we were perceived by others.”

“Abuse in the guise of love, is still abuse.”

What did I just read … 🤦🏽‍♀️

It’s giving the author tried making this a thriller rather than a fantasy

Acker went from a green flag to a red flag real quick

I really feel bad for Jovie… literally read these last few chapters w tears in my eyes