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Sorrow, however, turns out to be not a state but a process. It needs not a map but a history, and if I don't stop writing that history at some quite arbitrary point, there's no reason why I should ever stop…. Grief is like a long valley, a winding valley where any bend may reveal a totally new landscape.… Sometimes… you are presented with exactly the same sort of country you thought you had left behind….
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And I believe I can make sense out of it. You can't see anything properly while your eyes are blurred with tears. You can't, in most things, get what you want if you want it too desper-ately: anyway, you can't get the best out of it. Now!
Let's have a real good talk' reduces everyone to silence. 'I must get a good sleep tonight' ushers in hours of wakefulness. Delicious drinks are wasted on a really ravenous thirst.
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Micah Webber “It doesn't matter that all the photographs of H. are bad. It doesn't matter — not much — if my memory of her is imperfect. Images, whether on paper or in the mind, are not important for themselves.
Merely links. Take a parallel from an infinitely higher sphere. Tomorrow morning a priest will give me a little round, thin, cold, tasteless wafer. Is it a disadvantage — is it not in some ways an advantage— that it can't pretend the least resemblance to that with which it unites me?
I need Christ, not something that resembles Him.
I want H., not something that is like her. A really good photograph might become in the end a snare, a horror, and an obstacle.”


Micah Webber “Heaven will solve our problems, but not, I think, by showing us subtle reconciliations between all our apparently contradictory notions. The notions will all be knocked from under our feet. We shall see that there never was any problem.”


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