Natalia ’s Reviews > Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again: Women and Desire in the Age of Consent > Status Update

"Research by Debby Herbenick in 2015 found that 30 percent of women report pain during vaginal sex, and 72 percent during anal sex. Women's expectations are, moreover, upsettingly low; Herbenick told jouranlist Lili Loofbourow in 2018 that when women speak of 'good sex,' they tend to mean an absence of pain, while men mean reaching orgasm." (p. 25)