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Empathy

I've noticed....this issue
M: you want to play so it is difficulty to eat.
Solutions: listen, find appropriate time, iassist

Define concerns-real influence
No food=no energy; etc

Invitation step
Let's think of solution together
M first-->negotiate,be flexible.

Plan A:
For M: I've decided that...
No play before...

B: collaboration
Empathy--> adult concerns--> solution

C: independent solving
Quitting a sport? Okay.

2: Incompatibility

Self-actualization reached by influence through expectations. Some expectations are incompatible with characteristics. Vulnerabilities need helpers... To communicate Incompatibility - M: sulking, no's ... Beyond behavior

1: Role confusion
Past vs present =choices
Develop voice with our influence
(See projection notebook)