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Caleb Tate
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Ch 2 goes into the complexities of shame. Shame is in correlation with those whom you put trust in and who you allow to be the “judges” of your life. Shame is caused not just by the exposing of sin, but the revelation of one’s “deficiency”. This often leads to fear of consequences or “rejection” of community or relationship
— May 20, 2025 08:31AM
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Caleb Tate
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“Without radical commitment to seeing our entire existence as wrapped up in furthering God’s purpose in other people’s lives, recovering our souls can strengthen our tendency to think more about all that happens within and to require that others treat us with tenderness and respect… The point of living is giving not getting.”
-Allender, pg201
God given repentance moves us towards others-centered relating.
— Dec 26, 2025 07:15AM
-Allender, pg201
God given repentance moves us towards others-centered relating.
Caleb Tate
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When addressing memory, be open but not demanding, curious but not frantic, vigilant but not obsessed.
— Nov 29, 2025 08:07AM
Caleb Tate
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Chapter 6: Betrayal
“One does not abuse a valued possession. Many men and women have wept angry tears over the fact that their parents spent more time washing the car, tending the garden, or perfecting a golf swing than facing and dealing with their wounded heart.” (Allender, Pg. 130)
— Aug 04, 2025 12:06PM
“One does not abuse a valued possession. Many men and women have wept angry tears over the fact that their parents spent more time washing the car, tending the garden, or perfecting a golf swing than facing and dealing with their wounded heart.” (Allender, Pg. 130)
