sofiia’s Reviews > Love's Executioner and Other Tales of Psychotherapy > Status Update

this is going to be one of the best books read this year. not a single story has lost its grip or ability to put me on the verge of tears.

the two smiles - must be my favourite case so far, both in terms of writing itself and the depth of reflection. absolutely fascinating to compare Yalom’s musings from the late 80’s on self-other boundary with some of the most recent findings in interpersonal synchrony and mind coupling. the problem of never truly being able to know another is beautifully illuminated. more to be added upon finishing the book.

i can see how Yalom's approach and private thoughts could be shocking and even infuriating. but i'm growing some admiration for this man's frankness and the ability to not turn away from his client even if it is difficult to work with them. (tho i'd still argue that a therapist should not push themselves for the sake of overcoming countertransference and prove they can do anything if it's detrimental to their health)

having seen some negative reviews, i was bracing myself to be disillusioned by yalom's professionalism in particular in the third story ("fat lady"). to my surprise, i think he redeemed himself with *some* reflection, and the ending was quite satisfying. a recurring post-reading experience continues to be deeply existential, and i don't know if i can handle it in such concentrated doses, but the writing is too good..