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When we feel lonely we’re unhappy and long to escape this emotional pain. Solitude by contrast is a state of peaceful aloneness.. it’s an opportunity for self reflexion and a chance to connect to ourselves without distraction or disturbance
— Oct 18, 2025 06:20AM
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Nika
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The older I get, the more I realize the things I wanted were not necessarily the things that would’ve given me what I needed at the time
— Oct 19, 2025 01:59PM
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Learning the difference between self compassion and self pity is one way we can be kinder to ourselves.
If you were your own best parent what would you say to yourself?
— Oct 19, 2025 11:11AM
If you were your own best parent what would you say to yourself?
Nika
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Understanding your desires and urges and your complexity, rejecting dominant narratives about how weak an needy and bad and broken you are and defining for yourself what you are instead
— Oct 19, 2025 05:27AM
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Love is about finding home. Our parents aren’t going to live forever, so I think we need to find a tribe, a family, a community or a group that feels like home. A place where we feel seen and where we can see
— Oct 13, 2025 02:10AM
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Stoicism and Islam. In both there’s this idea of understanding that all you have control over is how you react to a situation and how you treat others
— Oct 01, 2025 03:30AM
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Idealizing someone is the opposite of love. You’re not witnessing them properly. No one really wants to be idealized - we want to be seen and accepted and forgiven and to know that we can be ourselves in our less edifying moments
— Sep 30, 2025 03:24AM
