Jami’s Reviews > Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy > Status Update
Jami
is on page 151 of 268
had to trudge through the chapter listing basically all the things that could go wrong transitioning to CNM— and it was a little overwhelming, a lot of it didn’t feel relevant to me and my path. but i’m happy to have exposure to these unique situations, god forbid i find myself in any of them haha!
— Jan 02, 2026 01:39PM
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Jami
is on page 183 of 268
god i can finally breathe again— getting through that middle chunk of “here’s all that COULD go wrong” felt like a fucking marathon…but now i get the reward of “everything that can go right, and how to get there” !! PHEW! 🙃
— Jan 07, 2026 10:41AM
Jami
is on page 100 of 268
I did not expect the whole first half of this book to be a detailed explanation of the psychology behind our sense of safefty and security throughout our entire lives?? I ADORE this book so far!!
One thing she talked about was "Pre-traumatic stress" (a result of climate change) and how it affects our sense of saftey/purpose--i fucking cried! It was so validating to hear her talk about it, I REALLY needed that :,)
— Dec 26, 2025 11:19AM
One thing she talked about was "Pre-traumatic stress" (a result of climate change) and how it affects our sense of saftey/purpose--i fucking cried! It was so validating to hear her talk about it, I REALLY needed that :,)
Jami
is on page 40 of 268
OH! so the book is reading me! awesome! had to take a deep breath after that first chapter JESUS.
— Nov 22, 2025 12:37PM
