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Eric Amaya
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It defines 3 levels of boundaries, porous (weak, oversharing, codependency, can’t say no), Rigid (having walls, cutting people out, super strict) and Healthy (being clear about your values, being comfortable, and sharing appropriately) it states that setting boundaries requires communication and action. Responses to boundaries are: pushing back, limit testing, and ignoring what was stated.
— Jan 03, 2026 09:40PM
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Eric Amaya
is on page 183 of 282
This section was about family and how it is hard to set boundaries with parents and in laws and siblings. It says that you and your partner should be on the same page then individually go to their respective families to set those boundaries. It also says to be patient as this may be your partners first time having to set these boundaries.
— Mar 11, 2026 07:16PM
Eric Amaya
is on page 167 of 282
I liked where this book talked about self betrayal and identity. How some days we honor our boundaries and some days we do not. The portion where it talked about how we cannot change people but we can change how we deal with them and accept is also something I agree with.
— Mar 10, 2026 09:03PM
Eric Amaya
is on page 152 of 282
The story is going on about a man who had no boundaries with his money and was living paycheck to paycheck but kept buying things out of his range and living above his means.
— Feb 23, 2026 08:11PM
Eric Amaya
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I read while Jeff complaining I learned all the different ways someone develops trauma from boundary violations
— Feb 18, 2026 09:01PM
Eric Amaya
is on page 139 of 282
Memories and trauma can lead to
Someone putting up walls and having a closed mindset preventing them from finding happiness or never resolving previous issues
— Feb 17, 2026 09:40PM
Someone putting up walls and having a closed mindset preventing them from finding happiness or never resolving previous issues
Eric Amaya
is on page 102 of 282
Passive aggressive boundary setting is just acting out without saying why and manipulating is using the other person without them know how they’re being used.
— Jan 18, 2026 01:12PM
Eric Amaya
is on page 92 of 282
What story out most of the guilt tripping of other parties to get you to do what they want to do, a sign of boundary pushing and not respecting what you had decided. Having to make the conversation about you again with “I” statements
— Jan 17, 2026 08:50PM
Eric Amaya
is on page 84 of 282
People do not have to like agree or understand your boundaries to respect them.
— Jan 16, 2026 03:51PM
