Lisa’s Reviews > Messy Love: Difficult Conversations for Deeper Connection > Status Update

Three different fight cells in a relationship
. Venting - I need to talk about this right now and get this off my chest.
. Hiding.- I need space
. Exploding.-this is where we all end up if we don’t get what we want

When it comes to contributions in a relationship, the financial is often overvalued while the emotional is undervalued. But all five are necessary for balance. Both partners should be open to shifting that balance, respecting each other’s contributions, and adapting to the different roles we each take on.

But I’m also here for the drama 🤭

Wow, it’s already getting good.

When looking at roles and responsibilities in a relationship, it breaks down into areas like:
– Emotional: holding space and validating each other
– Financial: supporting and pushing toward goals
– Mental: managing the invisible load—planning and tracking responsibilities
– Physical: cooking, errands, chores, fixing things
– Spiritual: how we’re growing together

I really enjoyed listening to Will Smith’s Audible on my drive home, which made me curious about other free audio content. I was pleasantly surprised to find this release by Jay.

I’ve enjoyed many of his interviews, especially the one with Cardi B. He’s a great listener—neutral, positive, and supportive.

It just released January 22, so I’m excited to be one of the first to leave a review. Very excite