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Jacqueline Graham
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Pile on principle: after a lifetime of hurt being piled on or being told, you’re not good enough, you may want to avoid some pain by creating barriers or distance between yourself and others in an effort to save yourself from curing more pain
— Feb 10, 2026 09:05PM
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Jacqueline Graham
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Intent vs. impact - when you do a careless behavior, it can end up hurting the other person. The three options are to blame the other person, try to shift your focus by saying that you didn’t intend to hurt them or take responsibility for your carelessness pick up the pieces and try to make things right as possible.
— Feb 10, 2026 09:00PM
Jacqueline Graham
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The book is good so far! One key point that I like that they mentioned is “just because we have good intentions does not mean that the other person is not negatively impacted”
— Feb 10, 2026 08:40PM
