Noah Rojas’s Reviews > The Let Them Theory > Status Update

I’m not really liking how she’s describing getting over a breakup… seems more like avoiding it than actually sitting and accepting the person is gone.. but I like this quote..

“Time doesn’t heal all wounds. What you do with your time does”

Healing is like a game.. the person you love must choose to play.. offering support is like throwing someone the ball.. you can toss the ball to them over and over but they have to choose to catch it.. recognize your situation, if they’re unwilling to catch, stop throwing.. cause deep down you know as soon as they are ready to catch, you will toss to them

I’ve always been told “comparison is the thief of joy”.. but through reading, I’ve learned that I can use the natural comparing that I do to fuel my steps… if someone is in the position I want, they laid the foundation, why can I not do it better by learning from them…

Two points:
“First, even when you bend over backward and try to please everyone, and make it work, even THAT won’t guarantee that other people will think a positive thought”

“Second, don’t be the person who bends over backward to make everyone happy. I used to be that person. It left me depleted and feeling like nothing I could do was ever good enough”

Just do you, someone will always have an opinion