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something really interesting i picked up from the first few chapters were about how trauma affects the way we act - especially in how we deal with relationship in our lives, in how survivors of abuse may have a hard time distinguishing love and terror because they've been conditioned to believe the harm acted upon them to be of love, of benefit
In the end, causes them to live in shame
— Apr 17, 2026 12:02PM
In the end, causes them to live in shame
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Eli
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in chapter 9, I found it really interesting when how certain 'problems' are just hallmarks of deeper problems to be solved, and rather than solving the surface-layered problems, we have to deep deeper. Through that, it also elaborated on how it can act as a coping mechanism short-term wise
— 17 hours, 2 min ago
Eli
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talks about the roles of mothers in attunement with the child. I think this might be a patriarchal view. It should put emphasis on both parents, moreso men in nurturing their children. In the case one is unable to fulfill the need of their child - the other has to play a role in this back-and-forth interaction. These preemptive formation of strong attunement is the foundation to building future relationships.
— May 04, 2026 02:56AM
Eli
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it's terrifying to not recognize yourself in the mirror, or to even not know how you're feeling
— May 03, 2026 07:29AM
Eli
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recently read about how we have 3 common state when in danger; social engagement, fight-or-flight and lastly shutting down and each are controlled by different nerves. Also, the vagus nerves ( specifically the ventral vagus nerves ) puts a break on our fight-or-flight reaction! When we feel safe, it sends signals to the heart to slow down its beating, thus giving us a sense of calm and safety.
— Apr 30, 2026 11:31PM
Eli
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the PET scan of the brain is really interesting. It's interesting to know the 'hows' of it; like how people aren't able to think straight or talk about their experiences in a sequential manner when experiencing a flashback or breakdown because the left-side of the brain ( which includes the Broca's area ) essentially 'shuts down.'
— Apr 20, 2026 09:05AM
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'Scared animals return home, regardless of whether home is safe or frightening.'
— Apr 18, 2026 11:01AM
Eli
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'scared animals return home, regardless of whether home is safe or frightening.'
— Apr 18, 2026 10:59AM

