Ashley’s Reviews > But If Not: Finding God in Unmet Expectations and Unwanted Detours > Status Update

“Let us pursue truth, get back up after stumbling, seek opportunities to lift and serve others, and build relationships along the way.”

“We try to see what lies ahead and make plans accordingly, but if not, He does. All he does is for our benefit, even if we can’t decipher it now. Especially when immersed in our sorrows and heartache. In His wisdom, God created this world with invitations around every corner to rely on Him, to grow faith in Him–that with Jesus Christ, all things are possible.”

“Cease fixating on preconceived details of our expectations, because our “hopes and fears of all the years” are met in the holy one of Israel.”

“With God, nothing [that he foresees for us) shall be impossible.”

“Instead of relying on my fellow mortals for constant validations of my worth, I should be relying on the foundation of my Father in Heaven and my Savior. They are constant. No matter how imperfect I am, they will always love me and be my source of strength.”

“The truth is that it is much more exhausting to see happiness where you can never find it!” -Russell M. Nelson

“Intrinsic success continues to bring us joy long after the initial stimulus. Intrinsic accomplishments involve relationships–relationships with God, our Savior, our family, friends, neighbors, and even strangers at times.”

“In truth, it is not our suffering, stumbling and challenges that define us. Rather it is how we respond to them that determines our fulfillment and satisfaction in life. The choices we make and the attitudes we exhibit–after the unexpected happenings, alter the details of our life–determine our happiness. Not what we might’ve been.”

“When we are young, it’s easy to get frustrated because you can’t imagine how a current “setback” or “failure” could lead anywhere productive. Over time, however, you look back and with wonder detect a clear path that led to opened doors of opportunity you never knew existed and avenues for growth and contribution you now cherish.”

“One of the great blessings of getting older is that you have the benefit of hindsight.”