Nicholas’s Reviews > Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love > Status Update

I read this three times and kept saying wow, this describes my past.

However, once they calm down, they become flooded with positive memories and are then overcome with regret.
They reach out to their partner in an attempt to reconcile.
But they are often met with a hostile response, because avoidants react differently to a fight. They turn off all attachment-related memories and remember the worst of their partner.

I like the book it helps to put things in perspective. I really felt the quote the pulled out from into the wild. And believe it truly.

“Happiness only real when shared” - Christopher McCandless