Michelle Liem’s Reviews > Conversations on Love > Status Update

It is not given to be good at relationships, make the effort to be better everyday for yourself and them, that’s all that you can do.

To rely on a flawed person with their own needs to meet your own at times high expectations, results in preventable pain and distress. ‘Interdependence’ was a new understanding that so far I have only known the dictionary definition of.

Putting an effort in your relationship should not be something to dread or become a burden, rather should come with ease because you want to be selfless for your person

Why ask “ will I ever find love?” , if you can ask “how could I love better?”

Another point of takeaway is : to be curious about your needs and desires and gifts and flaws to develop generosity and self compassion

“All love begins with imagination and fear, you make a bet with very little knowledge in the beginning.”
That was not something that has ever crossed my mind

A lot of the topics and points of discussion were things that I had expected, however, it is nice to have a proper scientific psychological explanation for emotions that were never given the clarity to me growing up.