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You have to be ruthless to be a writer. […] but really the ruthlessness comes from grabbing onto myself and saying “this is me. And I will not go where I cannot bear to go.”

Her mother had not treated her well, she said. And so when she had her first baby she became very sad. And her psychiatrist said she was feeling grief because of everything she had not received from her own mother.

There is now a large interest in ancestry and that means names and photos and court records but how do we find out what the daily fabric of life was?

Then I understood I would never marry him. It’s funny how one this can make you realize something like that. One can be ready to give up the children one always wanted. One can be ready to withstand remarks about one’s past or one’s clothes. But then a tiny remark and the soul deflates and says, “Oh.” I have since been friend with many men and women and they say the same thing. Always that telling detail.

“To imitate people. To try to have the gaps in my knowledge about pop culture go unnoticed. Although it was not easy, that part.”
I relate so much 😅