Deedles’s Reviews > The Let Them Theory > Status Update

Stop wasting your brain space on the million tiny things that don’t matter. It’s time to use every second of your day for all the amazing things you know you’re capable of.

Allowing other adults to face and feel the natural consequences of their actions is one of the most important steps of healing.

It’s not fair to stay in a relationship where you are chronically complaining about someone else. You hold the power, always, to make something better or to learn how to accept things as they are.

The most important change in any relationship is the one that you can control: yours. You change how you show up. You stop pressuring the person that you love and become more loving.

Stop punishing them for not changing on your timeline.