Grace’s Reviews > Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward > Status Update

“He doesn’t understand that asking is work.”
Hartley makes some decent points here, but I continue to struggle to understand why the way forward demands so much of women and so little of men.

Emotional labor = “Publicly observable facial and bodily display that has exchange value and is sold as a commodity” from The Managed Heart.

“Wouldn’t it make more sense to treat the space we share as a shared responsibility” = childcare as ahupua’a management kinda philosophy!!!!!!! I’VE BEEN SAYINNNGNGGGGGG