Meredith is a hot mess’s Reviews > Adaptive Prepping: How to Advance Your Prepping Regardless of Money, Time, Space, Energy, or Experience Constraints > Status Update

I have to go

So much is gut instinct

I don't want to bother doing background checks on guys, stalking their social media

just go with my initial gut feeling, when I meet them

looking back, that initial gut feeling has always been correct

Jamie is a quality guy

I got the impression when Jack flew in - that was the clique he was connecting with

Colleen, Jamie, Will

Gut feeling, something was off with Will

I could sense Will was influenced by Jadeline and Annabelle -- I had felt his projections year 1, one interaction with him - I didn't completely click with Will

Who a person is friends with matters

Ramon is a quality guy.

Jack is a quality guy.

I could see Jack and Ramon maybe year 4 becoming friends

and he would value that escape from London enough to try to keep up with people from Texas

Both of them have careers where they can't have a divisive social media presence - or controversial

Sage really got stuck on him

Katie was always the self-contained type

I wonder if she ever gave Sage a good shaking or 'hello? what are you doing?'

Maybe even with her best friend, she was like, 'you're on your own with guys'

see them regularly

And people who intially wow you physically?

Overtime they average out lower

there's a lot that goes into attraction, especially over time

Both dating coaches have described this and I felt this at the student housing, seeing people almost every day for 3 years

The more you see a person? The more they average out

By year 3? No girls were going for Dorian. He no longer looked hot.

Now, Doogie looked and felt way more attractive to me

So people who you intially see and maybe think they're weird?

Overtime they'll become more attractive - if you