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Francisco said that sometimes it feels like the author is dramatically putting himself down for how poorly of a husband he was and as a person, as if he’s mentioning it over and over again. He feels it is self deprecating. Something about wanting to punch his face.
— Sep 21, 2026 05:53PM
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Francisco feels there is no discussion or compromise, it’s just “I’m wrong, this hurt my wife”
Ally tries to explain “you can’t negotiate how someone feels”
Francisco feels like the book is saying the husband should “bend the knee and do it”
— Sep 22, 2026 07:41PM
Ally tries to explain “you can’t negotiate how someone feels”
Francisco feels like the book is saying the husband should “bend the knee and do it”
Ally
is on page 26 of 304
I think the book has mostly just been introductory right now, although it did help me draw that connection of the fish sandwich of that promise being made between us for alcohol and self harm and I hadn’t put those two things together like oh hey maybe that’s when our trust started getting questioned.
Francisco feels it’s very geared towards the husband being bad. He has not seen aspect of the other being bad.
— Sep 16, 2026 06:11PM
Francisco feels it’s very geared towards the husband being bad. He has not seen aspect of the other being bad.
Ally
is on page 15 of 304
Francisco said “I feel like this book is targeting me” instead of being open minded to it but we are tandem reading
— Sep 16, 2026 05:06PM