Elisabeth’s Reviews > Rental Person Who Does Nothing > Status Update

Because we can fail, success makes us happy, and that happiness can rub off on other people. Even when we make a mess of things, our efforts may help to establish a bond of trust.

Unless a friend shares a particular interest, inviting them to come along might feel like asking a favor snd thus puts you in their debt.

Rather than all around friends, people seem to have friends for specific purposes - friends to go drinking with, for example, or friends to play computer games with, and friends to go to concerts with.

Guilt = made a mistake
Shame = feel wring as a whole person. Feeling of otherness or of not belonging