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Sly asks if he can handle his emotions in tough situations. His principal caught him going to visit another girl during school. He is sent to the snake pit with crazy people. He learned how to survive it and how to deal with it. Deveroux shaped him and he learned a lot through it all. Sly really learned how to deal with self respect and telling himself he was enough and worth it.

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Sly still works hard on everything. He says you can’t be better than your abilities. Still looked at as the tough guy he never gives up. He eventually gets more work in roles but his look sets him back. Eventually gets married to Sasha as well. He sells Butkus to give him a better life. He writes paradise alley and sells it. Sly meets Herb who likes his work, he finds out about Gene Kirkwood and Chartoff/Winkler.

Sly gets a role in a movie thanks to John. He gets to be in Lords of The Flatbush. Through this he meets Jane Oliver who helps alter the course of his life. Henry Winkler also is in the movie and tells Sly that his work is great. After the movie Sly isn’t very successful. He leaves New York with Sasha to go to California. He gets a $40 car from his dad’s friend. His dad apologizes for the way he raised him.

Sly finally gets a rent controlled apartment. His brother Frank comes and wants to be a rockstar. Sly watches him as he sings on street corners. Sly also starts working as a security guard at bookmasters. He encounters Dustin Hoffman and knows he’s trending upward. He quits after chasing someone who stole a book. He and John make a movie called Horses. They have creative differences and they never speak again.

Sly talks about acting tough and how it can be. He gives his take on acting tough vs being tough. His experience at a boarding school helped him out a ton. Sly would write a lot, but had to find other ways to stay entertained. He goes to a museum and learns a lot about writers. Sly becomes fascinated with Edgar Allan Poe. He meets his friend John who tells him his writing is autobiographical. He works on his writing.

He reflects on his time in Switzerland with Prince Paul and how they would ring in cash. Sly worked with Sasha who understood the idea of getting into acting. His mother and father were odd. His mom was on her own at a young age and his father came from Italy. His dad loved horses and Sly did too until his dad caught him one day and yelled at him. As he got into writing he wanted it to be about hope.

Sly reflects on how he writes a lot and auditions again. He goes to a Woody Allen audition and is told he isn’t intimidating enough. That really gets him and he rejects rejection. He gets gel and slicks back his hair and comes back and gets the part. No is now a maybe to him. Sly becomes his roles and can get angry and use it to his advantage. He used it in an a challenge against Peter who was much bigger.

Sly reflects on his writing experiences. He uses everyone and in his life as a reason for certain characters. Every character had a way that they acted and why they acted. He worked at the theater and would record and reflect on what he watched. Sly got the acting bug and would do acting things while he was doing closing duties until another usher found him. Word got out that he was a little odd.

Sly is very lonely in the city and tries and auditions a lot. He isn’t given the chance to even fail. He encounters a man named Moondog who is blind and occupies a certain corner. Sly won’t give up on himself since Moondog is doing what he’s doing. He finds a job at a theater as an usher and is treated more like an object. Francis Ford Coppola wants to talk to Sly. Sly smashes his cake because of a long wait.