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i tried my best to let him down easy by saying he probably sensed me being more reserved lately. i told him i have a lot of new things going on in my life, and that i think it's best if we view our friendship more platonically. overall i feel like a crappy person. he's such a nice guy, genuinely the sweetest ever, and i know i hurt him. everyone is telling me i did the right thing and approached it well but i've still been on the brink of tears all day because i feel so mean for doing this to him.

it's okay to feel those emotions, but don't beat yourself up for it. it's clear that you care about him and it's not like you had the intention of ever hurting him. sorry that this happened though, I'll be praying for you both!

I'll pray for you guys ❤️

Oh Jaycee, I’m so sorry you’re going through that. That’s so hard, feeling that way. I think you approached it well, but I know dealing with that feels terrible. I’ll be praying for you both🫶🏼💕

It sounds like you both have a lot going on right now and it might best to take a break and work on your relationship with God. In a relationship God should be center and maybe you both need to work on that. He might need to also work on his relationship with God and God might want him to take time to get to know himself and God so he can lead you. I think you did the right thing and maybe it’s for the best!
Also you are young and have your whole life ahead of you! And once you are ready try to see what you really liked about this boy. His kindness, his personality, and his walk with God. If you still feeling nothing he might not be the one for you! There might be a guy out there that God knows will be perfect for you!
Don’t stress about boys! You are young and focus on yourself and God! And you’re walk with him. And also school. Boys will come and go but God will stay and soon there will be a boy who will stay by your side forever!

Sorry that what a lot and sorry if it doesn’t make sense! Hope this helps!

Praying for you and him!

JAYCEE🥺🥺🥺 First off- you’re 100% not a crappy or mean person you’re letting him know how you felt. It honestly takes guts to do that. Ik from personal experience lol. I had a situation pretty similar to yours and I totally ghosted the guy which was quite awful of me. I genuinely beat myself up over it for about…a year I think and girl- it was NOT fun🥀. I really don’t want you to go down the same road so PLEASE know that you did the right thing and hey- if you need to cry let it out girlie🥺 sometimes it feels good to cry😔. Ily girlie and I’m praying for you🥺🙏🙏.

Oh dear first I just want to give you a huge hug. I had to do the same thing a several months ago and that’s how you’re going to feel. You’re gonna feel guilty and like a terrible person. But I promise it gets better. Youre a kind person and I’m sure you wouldn’t ever do something that warrants feeling that way, but I know sometimes that doesn’t help. If u can try to find something that brings u joy or look for ways to grow yourself in this season (start a new hobby!) it really helps with the feelings of grief during this time.

Girl it's OKAY. Right now he might be upset, but he'll look back on it and be thankful you didn't lead him on when you didn't feel anything anymore. You're not a crappy person and you did the right thing. It's ok to be upset about it as I know this was probably very hard for you. Don't let this stop y'all's friendship and who knows the spark may rekindle, it may not. The point is, you're still young and sometimes relationships don't work out, and that's ok. It was smart of you to end it now before y'all got too serious

aw i’m sorry jaycee, i’ll be praying for you guys 🫂

thank you all i really appreciate it <33 i'm feeling a bit better today, and I think I'm gonna text him at work to A. show i still care enough to talk to him and B. i have an excuse for not replying right away 😭

@jaycee That’s a good idea🥹 I hope it all works out🥺🙏